For centuries women have been taught to love in silence. The idea of a woman expressing her feelings openly is often met with judgment or ridicule as if vulnerability is a weakness rather than a strength. As a result many women lock their emotions away carrying unspoken stories of love, longing and heartbreak.Society’s double standards are sometimes annoying. While men are often encouraged to pursue their desires boldly women are expected to wait patiently and quietly hoping someone will notice their feelings. A woman confessing her love is often seen as desperate or improper even in modern times. These outdated norms stifle authenticity and suppress the natural human need to express affection.
This imbalance leaves many women in a silent struggle. They hold onto unspoken dreams and memories, replaying them in their minds wondering what could have been. They imagine conversations they’ll never have, moments they’ll never share and futures that will remain unlived.
It’s not just about romantic love either. It’s about the broader issue of allowing women to own their emotions without fear of judgment. Women’s hearts like oceans are vast and deep filled with secrets they feel they can’t share. But why should love pure and genuine ever be something to hide?To normalize women expressing their feelings we must challenge societal norms. Love is universal. It knows no gender, no boundaries and no rules. A woman’s courage to speak her heart should be celebrated not condemned. When we allow women the freedom to express their emotions, we create a world where love is no longer a sacrifice but a shared journey.
The truth is love is a risk for anyone. It requires vulnerability and courage regardless of who takes the first step. By breaking free from the chains of societal expectations we can create a culture where all hearts are free to beat openly and unapologetically.Let us remember that love in its truest form is never something to be hidden. It is a force to be cherished a story to be shared and a gift to be celebrated. And every woman’s heart deserves the chance to tell its story, without fear, without shame and without secrets.
Written By: –
Rtr. Lihansa Edirisinghe
(Co-Editor 2024-25)
Edited By:
Rtr. Thisara Kuruppuarachchi
(Senior Blog Team Member 2024-25)